The Relationship Between Parenting Styles and People-Pleasing Conditions in Adolescents in Sidoarjo
Hubungan Pola Asuh dan Kondisi People Pleaser Pada Remaja di Sidoarjo
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https://doi.org/10.21070/ups.10757Keywords:
parenting style, people pleaser, adolescentsAbstract
This study examines the relationship between parenting styles and people-pleasing tendencies among adolescents in Sidoarjo. Using a quantitative correlational design, data were collected from 339 adolescents aged 13–24 years living with their parents through questionnaires on parenting styles and people-pleasing behavior. The analysis employed Spearman’s correlation test. Results show that most respondents fall into the moderate category of people-pleasing tendencies. Furthermore, a significant positive relationship was found between parenting styles and people-pleasing tendencies (r = 0.548; p < 0.05), indicating that higher levels of parenting are associated with stronger tendencies to please others. These findings suggest that parenting plays an important role in shaping adolescents’ behavior. Therefore, balanced parenting is needed to help adolescents develop a healthy sense of self and avoid excessive people-pleasing.
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